You have to be the bigger person.

You have to be the bigger person.

Learning how to be the bigger person was the way most of us were raised, but truthfully, it can be extremely toxic in some situations and with some people who cross the line and poison our lives. Being the bigger person doesn't work with everyone because we are better off without some people in our lives. Cutting ties with friends or partners who constantly disrespect you or bring constant drama and problems into your life is the only healthy thing to do, and being the bigger person in these situations will only draw in more toxicity and more unfavorable circumstances. It's important to be empathetic, kind, and forgiving in some cases, but you have to draw the line and set boundaries with people who don't have any or people who only make your life more difficult.

Sincerely yours,

Senjakala.