You are not good enough.

You are not good enough.

One of the most common toxic mindsets is the belief that we are not good enough for something, whether it's a certain university or a job or a relationship, because at some point in our lives we wanted something so badly and we didn't get it or it went to someone else, thus it became second nature to fear not getting something we want because we don't want to feel that kind of pain again, so we don't even try. The truth is, we may not be qualified enough for a job we want and we may not be the right person for someone we want, but that doesn't mean we are not good enough. It just means that some things are meant to be ours or for us, and it also means that we still have some work to do on our own before we can truly be ready for some experiences. The key here is not to let that mindset paralyze you from trying, and you have to feel worthy and deserving of whatever you want, even if you don't get it. In order to change the pattern, you have to change your mindset, even if the outcome is not the one you want. It's all about what's happening on the inside, not what's happening on the outside.

Sincerely yours,

Senjakala.